This is my first blog ever in my life. I am very much thrilled that my first blog is being posted in IL........ a double happiness, i should say.
Please post your comments so that i can learn and improve my blogging skills!!!
Since my marriage, I have been going through lots of changes, especially the relations around me, the new and the old.
For some time now, I have been thinking of writing down some of the experiences or instances I have come across and the kind of relationships each one is surrounded with.
Hmm…….. I was stuck for a while thinking deeply as to how and from whom do I start with?
Let me start how I was before marriage. I was alone, refrained myself from mingling with any of the relatives. May be, it is the perception I got when I was a child, a time when our family was ignored just for the reason that my parents were uneducated and do not live upto their so-called status . I used to go to school/college, and only books and books. Even after I started working, I used to feel very uncomfortable in my own house if anybody visited us. I always had this feeling that they have come to us becoz they wanted something from us. (Can’t help it, it is the same people who instilled such a thought in me becoz of their known or unknown behavior).
But, one should agree – all are born politicians. People behave in one way when a person is in front of them and then they talk differently in the absence of that person. Sometimes, I wonder, why can’t people behave normally or naturally, should I say? Having said and done, people do not like you to be straight forward too and do not like direct comments!!!
I have been wondering and thinking about these lines, but I come back to the same point where I started !!???? Crazy, isn’t it?
Please post your comments so that i can learn and improve my blogging skills!!!
Since my marriage, I have been going through lots of changes, especially the relations around me, the new and the old.
For some time now, I have been thinking of writing down some of the experiences or instances I have come across and the kind of relationships each one is surrounded with.
Hmm…….. I was stuck for a while thinking deeply as to how and from whom do I start with?
Let me start how I was before marriage. I was alone, refrained myself from mingling with any of the relatives. May be, it is the perception I got when I was a child, a time when our family was ignored just for the reason that my parents were uneducated and do not live upto their so-called status . I used to go to school/college, and only books and books. Even after I started working, I used to feel very uncomfortable in my own house if anybody visited us. I always had this feeling that they have come to us becoz they wanted something from us. (Can’t help it, it is the same people who instilled such a thought in me becoz of their known or unknown behavior).
But, one should agree – all are born politicians. People behave in one way when a person is in front of them and then they talk differently in the absence of that person. Sometimes, I wonder, why can’t people behave normally or naturally, should I say? Having said and done, people do not like you to be straight forward too and do not like direct comments!!!
I have been wondering and thinking about these lines, but I come back to the same point where I started !!???? Crazy, isn’t it?